Well... It's Sunday. Get over it, I was busy!
And I'm done being rude. Happy Easter, everyone!
"Never let your fear decide your fate."
- Kill Your Heroes, Awolnation
What I guess I'm trying to say is that you have to live your life. You can't not do things because you're afraid. What kind of life is that?
"I don't want to drive in a big city because I'm afraid."
You're going to miss the lights, and the people who all have their own story, the grand wonder of all these people and places and things. You'll stay home in your little world and won't ever know anything else.
"I don't want to ask her/him out because she/he might say no."
What if she/he doesn't say no? What if she/he says yes? You'd miss out on a tender and monumental time in a teenager's (and probably some adult's) life. And if she/he does say no? Well, it's going to hurt. But you should feel proud that you had the courage in your heart to go for it despite the risk.
Just live your life. Don't be too afraid to live it, because that's not really living at all.
Ten Minutes - Paulo Coelho
Everything tells me that I am about to make a wrong decision, but making mistakes is just part of life. What does the world want of me? Does it want me to take no risks, to go back to where I came from because I didn't have the courage to say "yes" to life?
"The reservations and careful calculating are supposed to be something adults have because they've acquired it." Idk...I kinda disagree with you on this post. We say that we're supposed to make mistakes cuz that's what all the adults did. But what if we need to be smarter than them to save us from pain? We always here them talking about their regrets and we think it's no big deal...just wait til that's us. idk man.
ReplyDeleteBut how can you be sure that it was a mistake? You can't not do anything because you're afraid to get hurt.
ReplyDeleteI think you could give things a chance but also listen to people that /know/ it's a mistake because they've been through it. but if it's new, go for it.
ReplyDeleteand i just look up the pictures online.